Tuesday 11 February 2014

MEN, PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH by Odedeyi Sunday

MY attention was drawn to a video which was circulated recently on the social media about a man who caught his wife cheating on him , I did not watch the video though but I read through the comment of so many men in which gender biased is being displayed.
The question is, could this video brings so much attention if it is a woman who circulated the video of her husband cheating on her?
Although am not in support of any sexual immorality and infidelity, when a man caught his wife cheating on him, the whole world would be brought down but when a man cheats on his wife, the issue will be trivialized, Is this not gender inequality?

A man looking for children after so many years got another woman impregnated, the whole family will come together to beg and plead but a woman who got impregnated by another man after so many years of waiting to get a child will be treated like a leper and thrown out of her matrimonial home.
Is this not gender inequality.
Why is polygamy acceptable and polyandry a taboo? Is this not gender inequality.
A man hanging out with friends and drinking alcohol till late in the night is treated as a normal thing but a woman who does that is treated as a prostitute and being promiscuous. Is this not gender inequality ?
A woman has gone to school to acquire certificate with the desire of practicing her profession but she is left redundant at home babysitting children, Is this not gender inequality.
A man's acts of disrespect for his wife is observed as an act of control over his wife but a wife who disrespect her husband is said to be arrogant and saucy. Is this not gender inequality?
Am not in support of wives disrespecting their husbands as long as I will not wish that my wife should disrespect me but all am saying is that we men should treat our women as 'human' with feelings and blood flowing in her veins.
Woman, its time you stop treating issues with emotions. Try to be analytical and logical in reasoning as this is the only way you can be delivered from gender oppression and gender inequality.
Am not teaching you how to be disobedient and rebellious but have a logical and analytical mind.
As a man , am totally against any cultural and religious beliefs which preaches gender inequality and gender biased.
MEN PRACTISE WHAT YOU PREACH AND STOP BEING AN HYPOCRITES AND EGOCENTRIC. WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER. REMEMBER , HE WHO MUST COME TO EQUITY MUST COME WITH A CLEAN HANDS.
Thank you.
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